What should I do in this relationship situation?

it sounds like you already know the answer you are just waiting to hear it from other people. there is no reason to jump into this relationship with both feet and pull far more than your fair share of the weight when little is given in return. its great that you feel good around a person and they can cheer you up but thats the basis for a good friendship, not a romantic relationship. fron the sond of it you are a total type A personalty and he is type B. things are not going to change very much and you need to decide if the man (or boy) he is today is the person you would like to spend the rest of your life with, or at least someone like this. get involved with a church in your college town, or an on campus christian group. it sounds like he has some more growing up to do and you are in a different place in life. long distance relationships are hard to begin with and you two are not equally yoked. let him go and move on with your life. find someone with the same beliefs as you, it will make a better foundation for your relationship and will leave less room for doubt. a cord of three strands is not easily broken. God Bless