The man with two faces..a great writer.. attractive writer..but he is different in person ..why?

i like his writings in the monthly magazine.. he pinpoints about behaviour, how to come up, how to be kind enough with all, about feeding to the poor, worship, study etc., etc., are found in his writing. I didn't see him before, but his photo appeared in the magazine. I know that he is the father in law of my managing director. He wrote in an article that he is hating the word hate.. don't hate anybody ..all are the sons of the God and so on. I felt one day that it is the luckiest day when my managing director called me and asked me to get sign from his daughter who is at present at his father-in-law's home. i rushed there in the intension not to get sign, but an opportunity to see the writer. i was very happy on seeing him and paid respect, whereas he not only ack my respect and asked who am i. i said to come to get sign from ..he asked why you are telling to me. i said you asked i replied. The he shouted loudly saying someone coming and asking me and so on..now i hate hm